I hear this from her family a lot.

The problem is, the resistance against white nationalists is huge, strong and has governmental and corporate levels of support.

If you are a man with a family working in a professional role, you know that your career is decimated the second you join any of the attempts to speak out. You will be ostracised, unemployable and it will put your family in the poor house. The only people left to speak out are those with nothing to lose, i.e. those who don't work anyway and probably are not smart enough to do anything meaningful. This is why white nationalists always look like braindead idiots with jaws dragging on the floor.

This is the impossibility line to cross.