"And the reason I'm not liked is because I told our manager, and by extension those players, exactly where he and they could go in trying to tell me where I could change and shower."

Well, he can go in the men's room and they can go in the women's room ? So basically this huge man who makes no effort to "pass" besides sporting the haircut of the violent guy in Bon Jovi's Always video... is pissed off and making the news because he won't have women tell him they won't strip down in front of them.
That's literally what's happening.

He is telling women to fuck off because they refuse to undress next to him, and is hoping bringing this to the media will help him.

The entitlement is wrong on this one.