They don't think they need us, we need them.

The irony being that we outnumber them. But you're right. We have nowhere to go IRL, and the few spaces we do have access to have been colonized by woke rhetoric. And they're STILL fucking with the definitions because people can't just come out and say they they never liked us to begin with and want to do away with 'bi' in favor of 'pan'. At least then we'd have some damn consistency. But no, they want to keep 'bi' around just to change the definition every two weeks.