GenderCritical Discord, looking for new members! by Scherzovii in GenderCritical

[–]InattentiveGiraffe 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Thank you!

GenderCritical Discord, looking for new members! by Scherzovii in GenderCritical

[–]InattentiveGiraffe 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I joined quite a while ago, but for some reason, I can't post messages or view them anymore. Is it because I don't post much?

Late Bloomers? by colormegood in Lesbians

[–]InattentiveGiraffe 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

32 and never had a single date in my entire life :) Had to focus on studying in my teen years and 20s, and never had the time to figure things out. I guess the environment also matters; my community is very orthodox, so lesbian women here are very secretive about their sexuality. Anyway, I'm also hoping to start dating soon)

(Saidit) PEAK TRANS I: Please continue to share your stories!! by Irascible-harpy in GenderCritical

[–]InattentiveGiraffe 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Yep, that was him :D

(Saidit) PEAK TRANS I: Please continue to share your stories!! by Irascible-harpy in GenderCritical

[–]InattentiveGiraffe 42 insightful - 5 fun42 insightful - 4 fun43 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

I thought I'd reached my peak trans way back in 2017, when my orientation was called "a genital preference." However, with the recent banning of women-only subs on Reddit, the sh&tstorm on Twitter, and especially the hate JK Rowling gets, it doesn't even feel like peaking anymore - I'm just soaring in the stratosphere perpetually, wondering if this madness ever ends. Thank you people who suggested me to use my resources to warn women in my local Ukrainian/Russian community a year ago; I've done everything I could. Luckily, most have been reasonable, although some had already made up their minds. But now, I just feel tired. I don't care about doxxing, or legal repercussions, or whatever else I may face. I wonder if this TRA bullsh&t is ever accepted where I live, a mostly Christian Russian-speaking community where gays and lesbians are usually demonized. If it is, I guess we'll have the ultimate confirmation that it's only about men's rights, and nothing else. But for now, I'm done. Done with hiding, done with fearing of voicing my opinion. I don't care if I get fired from my office job and have to work as a dishwasher for the rest of my life. We are women, and we have a voice.

(Saidit) PEAK TRANS I: Please continue to share your stories!! by Irascible-harpy in GenderCritical

[–]InattentiveGiraffe 21 insightful - 1 fun21 insightful - 0 fun22 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

This is so upsetting. The fact that the idea of "validation" (which, JFC, this term became obnoxious and reeking of narcissism as soon as the TRA movement appropriated it) trumps the needs of women and the concept of religious tolerance makes me livid. Comparing butch lesbians to men only adds insult to injury. You were very brave to stand up for this Muslim woman!

So...how are we coping with this fiasco? I swear I had a small heart attack. This feels like war. by MsHurricane in Lesbians

[–]InattentiveGiraffe 13 insightful - 2 fun13 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I hope this sub will become just as active and rich in discussion as the old one was. Happy to join you once again!

Do NOT Panic! by [deleted] in Lesbians

[–]InattentiveGiraffe 8 insightful - 2 fun8 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Happy to join :)