This thread is such an amazing dumpsterfire.

I've been trans for about... a year or 2 now

But I thought it was something you're born with? Cause if it wasn't, conversion therapy would work after all?

You gotta remember that the penis changes during hrt too, so some women who experience dysphoria pre-transition no longer do so after.

It really doesn't. It gets very, very slightly smaller and doesn't become erect quite as often (but still does a lot), that's it.

Some trans woman, nearly every on I've ever known have no interest in getting the surgery for their genitals. Some just get rid of the testes. When you get down to it you're genitals aren't going to define your gender.

Which kinda once again forces the question of why HRT is necessary then.

Bodies aren't important because only the mind is... And feminine and masculine are just social constructs anyway... And many trans people don't have any dysphoria at all and are still valid...

So why the HRT then? Your body doesn't define your gender. And even if, gender doesn't really exist anyway. And besides, even if it did, many trans people don't feel uncomfortable about it. Where's the issue then? Why are taxpayers billed for things that are apparently not needed?

I'm just so genuinely curious what answer a trans person would give as to why there is a difference between breasts, for example, and a penis. Why a trans woman who has a penis is 100% valid and most of them feel no dysphoria about having one, and yet pretty much all of them want breasts and feel dysphoria if they don't have them or if they're not big enough. Shouldn't primary sex organs lead to more dysphoria than secondary ones?

It’s been a part of you all your life, well before puberty. It’s common for trans women to think they’d feel incomplete without it, probably just as common as those that feel incomplete with it.

And yet that same logic somehow doesn't apply to flat chests and angular faces in MtFs or breasts in FtMs?

The nice thing about gender having nothing to do with genitalia is that gender presentation has nothing to do with genitalia too. As long as your body is one that you are comfortable in, that is all that matters.

This is another one. If genitalia have nothing to do with gender presentation, where is the line? Does "gender presentation" only include things you can see while a person is clothed? Cause if so, why have HRT to get breasts when you could just put on a bra and stuff it, which wouldn't require HRT? And if not, why aren't breasts and such also not part of gender presentation? Why are genitals not important but breasts are?

I’m ftm but I wouldn’t want a penis even if it was free and just magically appeared with no surgery. You do you girl

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All types of dysphoria levels are valid!! Getting bottom surgery isn’t required to be valid. Sometimes it’s just a ‘well, call me this, it makes me feel amazing,’

They say this and still somehow don't realize why their community is 90% crossdressing fetishists.

I do feel like a vagina would give me the satisfaction of being a "complete" woman. No worrying about tucking, sit to pee without needing to "aim" it

This guy is in for a surprise.

Also currently orgasms just are not very fulfilling, had a high libido and orgasms were explosive, its become more a job then enjoyable. Kind of hoping once my T is supressed and my E levels at cis female levels that it will either bring back the pleasure or I'm fine without a libido and not needing to do the "deed" every few nights. Really just looking for some intimacy at this point.

Same guy as the previous comment. An unexpected glimpse into the reality of what's going on in their minds. This is honestly equally sad as it is infuriating. This guy has become so porn-addicted that sexuality has just lost all excitement for him and being trans is just him trying to up the dosage to get the same high he did previously.

nope, your fine hun

I've got a giant floppy cock and I'm proud of it

Nope not at all. My wife loves hers. Me on the other hand, I like my penis I just don’t like the way she looks. She is uncircumcised and that is the thing that makes me dysphoric about my penis nowadays.

...Just gonna include these ones for the fun of it.