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[–]ifuckredditsnitches_Resident Pajeet 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

He knows that family members will gossip and say bad stuff behind your back.

(they do this if you marry in-group too)

[–]radicalcentristNational Centrism 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

It's a lot worse when the family members speak another language or have far different cultural norms.

They'll see your race as different and have all the leverage to destroy your life. Not the same as two white people who share similar interests but have disagreements.