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[–]risistill me 2 insightful - 3 fun2 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 3 fun -  (3 children)

Someone once asked me if I were trying to look sexy. I replied, "If I were trying, you'd be dying laughing."

IOW, I'm just not good at trying to be anything. Like Popeye, "I yam what I yam," no matter how many people get offended by yams!

[–]penelopepnortneyBecome ungovernable[S] 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

That's the way! Seriously, it's the best approach, just be who you are and let people accept you that way or not. I don't recall ever seeing you conduct yourself badly with others, it's what makes you such a valuable contributor to WOTB.

[–]risistill me 2 insightful - 3 fun2 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 3 fun -  (1 child)

aww, shucks.

I will be the first to admit that I could use more diplomacy. I refuse to self-censor, even when I know I will get downvoted or insulted (or blocked) for my view. But I don't always have to state an unpopular view that no one has even asked about. There is such a thing as "too candid." It's one thing to say "yes," to "Is my outfit awful?" It's another to say "your outfit is awful" if no one has asked. Not that I go to that extreme, but I think you know my posts well enough to understand.

[–]penelopepnortneyBecome ungovernable[S] 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I do.