Exactly. It's nothing but LARPing by either the mentally ill or the sexually predatory (and more so the latter, really; the former mostly know what's up and just try to live their lives with none of the TRA drama). If I dressed up in Hogwarts' robes, called myself a wizard, and started trying to hang with 11-year-old children as a first-year student? They'd have me cuffed up before you could say "chocolate frog." But some man (or woman) wants to dress up--often poorly--as woman (or man), suddenly they need to be accommodated in that?