(Vent) Girl on my facebook...

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A girl on my facebook friends list did a 20 picture spread of her pregnancy... Her husband cradling her "baby bump" front of some cheesy elementary school/glamor shot backdrop and everything. And not a year after her daughter's birth, she announced she's starting testosterone. Everyone is congratulating her for being so "stunning and brave", of course. How does this happen?

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[–]ClassroomPast6178 18 insightful - 3 fun18 insightful - 2 fun19 insightful - 3 fun -  (3 children)

I wonder if, that is if it’s not just straight up post-partum mental illness, this is cluster B personality. The baby was taking attention away from her, everyone went from fawning over her whilst she was pregnant, to fawning and cooing over the baby and this is a way to shift attention back to herself.

God help that poor child.

[–]jet199 9 insightful - 4 fun9 insightful - 3 fun10 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

Yep, this is narcissism

[–]artetolife 8 insightful - 2 fun8 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

That and lots of transexuals like to lessen their partners chances of escape by tying them down with marrige, kids, mortgage etc before the big reveal.

[–]SMCAB 7 insightful - 2 fun7 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Ding Ding Ding! Winner. Here's your award.⭐️

[–]Femaleisnthateful 10 insightful - 2 fun10 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Exulansic has been profiling a TikToker like this. Forget the name. Had a baby while transitioning and is so completely focused on her transition that the baby is a complete afterthought, even as it has serious medical problems of its own. The mother sells pride themed trinkets and begs for money online to support herself and her transition. No real job, because she can't manage that while she's transitioning!

Such a narcissistic endeavor. I know mothers who put off needed surgeries while their kids were young so they could care for them. I think some of these young people feel genuinely threatened by their young children taking priority or attention away from them.

[–]TitsAndWhiskeyPronoun: My Nigga 8 insightful - 2 fun8 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Attention seekers. We’ve become compulsive attention seekers. I blame social media.

[–]Wanderingthehalls 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I know-ish a woman like this. Baby was only 7 moths old when she realised she was really a man. Told a large online group of friends of friends about it before anyone in real life. Clearly chose this group because it's full of TRA allies, FTMs, Afab NBs and munchie moms, so she got nobody to respond to tell her to cop the fuck on. They all basically coached her on how to be a man and what to do before she told her husband. Made sure she knew the "best" doctors and counsellors to go to. It's a fucking cult. I have lots of friends in the group, nice people, some are very intelligent about other topics. But they are full on cult members.

[–]Dragonerne 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

If you care about her, you should stop her before she ruins her life.