and papering over the heavy criticism INSIDE of the spectrum: the intersex say "no, we're MEN, we didn't 'feel funny,' might wanna look up the Reimer twins--and stop appropriating our terms of 'assigned' fe/male"; genderfluidity is of course completely incompatible with dysphoria, and that whole "use our names and let us get a stiffy in the women's room or we'll kill ourselves" doesn't work if you don't have dysphoria (they even say requiring dysphoria's "cruel"); lesbians don't want limp dick, and they don't want it from someone who looks like Chris-Chan and pesters only "cis Gold Star lesbians"; and the gays who aren't farting glitter or throwing dildoes say "you're making us look bad" (spoilsports!)