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[–]meisthebigdumbTransracial BlackX Rockgender Bispecies 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Also it's obvious that women are more attracted to muscly guys. So people are literally psyopped into becoming unattractive lmao

[–]Wanderingthehalls 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Tbh, I don't think most women are attracted to overly muscly guys with very low levels of body fat. Especially if the low level of body fat is giving them a drawn face. And a lot of peds show on the face in a way that's off-putting. A nice face is generally very important to women. Men who are naturally fit and strong from working out or doing a sport and having a good diet are most attractive to most women. And one of the things that I, and a lot of women I talk to, find especially physically attractive is prowess. A man who does something he loves very well is attractive, whether that's combat sports, football, basketball, lifting/bodyweight exercises, dancing, acrobatics, rock-climbing, whatever. Someone who can do something physically difficult with control and contained power is very, very attractive. Bonus points if they are getting joy from it.

And the other things is, one of those articles specifically says men shouldn't work out but women should. Fit women are especially more likely to be attracted to fit guys. When I was less in shape, I genuinely had lower standards about who I was attracted to. But now, I put the work into my own fitness and physical abilities and I'm not really that interested in someone that doesn't do the same. It doesn't have to be the same kind of activity that I do but it has to be something. So the end result of following that supposedly scientific advice, would be a bunch of out of shape guys, who are at best skinny fat, but mostly just fat, fat hoping for the attention of fit women with no interest. Not that most women are going to work out or if they do, eat a good diet. Men are being told the gym will make them alt-right while women have been told to 'love your curves' ie, your fat rolls rather than a natural hourglass. And that we should be body positive and are healthy at any size. That our bodies will go to shit after we have children and we should embrace it and be embraced for it, rather than try to be fit and healthy.