Watch news reports on it even when they are trying to be supportive it comes out. There are some relatively "normal" trans people who don't seek the spot light and want to be left alone, but almost everyone in the media is an attention "whore" quite literally. It's a weird exhibitionism fetish and when they talk about how trans people are getting murdered a massive rates, like 99% of it is prostitution and drug related. Turns out high af gang bangers don't like "surprises" from their prostitutes.