Nothing is safe with them.

That's kind of my whole problem with the gender crap. A man strutting around in a dress makes himself the dominant feature of any grouping of people he finds himself in. Quick... name a decathlete! Name an admiral in the Public Health Service! Name a collegiate swimmer!

And this isn't because of some bias of mine or some aspect of my socialization. It's inherent. Distorting sex and gender is just objectively intrusive and attention-grabbing, and that's probably a big part of its twisted appeal.