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[–]LyingSpirit472 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

But hey you want to get a girl you've got to be someone the girl will want to get. Go work out, go get a career, go get a hobby, focus on this shit and you'll be able to find a girl that will be with you.

Also just remember. You're not going to ever get laid if you just sit around on the internet complaining about not being able to get laid. Go to the bar, find some ugly 50 year old skank. Easy.

But even that logic is part of the whole problem- when one side has to become "worthy" of someone's love, and the other side doesn't even have to change anything about themselves and they're inherently worthy, there's still a big problem there on both sides.

The answer is really "worthiness comes from within." If you don't feel worthy- and if you identify as an incel, you inherently don't- it won't work. You can become a bodybuilding billionaire with a great hobby and you'll still be an incel who that ugly 50 year old skank would laugh at.

[–]Dzonatan 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

One does not become a bodybuilding billionaire and still have a horrible outlook on life. It just doesn't work that way. Both thing require discipline that naturally kills of whiny attitude.

Also you'd be surprised how many women get turned down for being too far or ugly. The reason you don't notice it is because you don't give butter golems anything pass a glance you regret in the first place.

[–]LyingSpirit472 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

You'd be surprised how attitude goes through for anyone. There's people who are at the top who are toxic.

The other side is also the problem. There's a lot of people who won't settle for anything but perfection- both incel and "butter golem"- but a lot of the biggest incels would sell their soul to the devil just to be falsely accused of rape by one of those butter golems and would happily go to jail forever for a crime they didn't commit, just so it's a matter of public record they once had sex.

[–]Dzonatan 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Geee... No need for the whole soul selling. Personally I'd just go to Amsterdam or Singapore.