Generally speaking I find that a lot of their “positions” on things like sex, gender, race are for public consumption. They live their private lives quite differently, as evidenced by the difference between who they live around and date in actuality and who you think they would live around and date based on their professed beliefs.

You living in certain zip codes makes you a racist, but when they have THEIR families there instead of in some inner city slum, it’s because of “good schools”.

Same with troons. They just see them as a cudgel to wield against the rest of us.