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[–][deleted] 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Yeah, I can't find this anywhere but on conservative sites.

The current TRA talking point on that is "nobody is forcing you to date anyone," which is disingenuous as there is pressure on younger people in school I am told, but also it is reminiscent of shitlib gaslighting tactics (i.e. "nobody is forcing you to get the jab").

[–]Datachost 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

It's always followed by the liar's but. "Nobody is saying you have to, but maybe you need to consider what it might say about you if you turn them down". Really it should stop at "Nobody should be forced to or made to feel like they've been coerced into having sex with someone". Anything after that is coercion. The only justification you need for not finding someone attractive is "I just don't", anyone who tries to convince you why that "Because I don't" isn't acceptable is a boundary ignoring creep. And if they won't listen to that, maybe "Because I find you repulsive, both inside and out" will work

[–]Alienhunter糞大名 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I usually let them down gently with "No." If they won't take a simple no as an answer, I just report all further correspondence as sexual harassment. They know the real reason. They want to keep pushing they can keep getting HR referrals.