I know how you feel. I was pretty accepting of trans stuff, I was even beginning to open up to non-binary because some friends claimed to be. Then they all decided I'm transphobic (without me ever saying anything of the sort) and tried to ruin my life. It's a tale as old as time. So the pendulum swung real quick.

I pity the, like, 5 real trans people who are just going about their life and not making a big deal out of everything. They're coo'.