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[–][deleted] 4 insightful - 3 fun4 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 3 fun -  (3 children)

I appreciate the effort but I really don't have the ability to be in a relationship. There is a lot that has happened that I would rather not bring up here but if you were on the subs on reddit you may know of it. I had a devastating year last year.

[–]JasonCarswell 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

I don't know, but I hope it's behind you. I had a worse dozen years. Ironically 2020 was my best year since 2007.

[–][deleted] 3 insightful - 3 fun3 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 3 fun -  (1 child)

No its not behind me at all. Hopefully a few years from now the pain will be less severe. But I can honestly say that the things I went through have made me very certain that I am not relationship material.

[–]JasonCarswell 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

In that you know yourself, you're ahead of most.

Life is suffering, as Buddhists say.