Sexually "successful" men aren't doing something better, they are a joke.
Consider the fact that schopenhauer, newton etc. would have overwhelmingly likely desired casual sex yet were virgins in their old age. And even famous men who didn't die virgins still weren't able to get casual sex.
If they failed, it could very well be that you don't stand a chance. This is why normies lie about how these famous people were either gay or willingly didn't have casual sex.
If it was actually true that they didn't want sex in marriage because they were against marriage, and didn't want casual sex because they knew they couldn't succeed in it, it is because a 5/10 male should not expect to be able to achieve casual sex, this idea is literally just a psy-op.
Braggers and media will have you think that most 5/10 men will have sex but it just doesn't add up. I mean over 60% of men in the US under 30 are single according to a recent statistic, and the female gets everything out of the relationship without needing to have sex with the guy. Plus only 1 in 17 men got to even reproduce during the stone age. This assumption just ignores that, yes, women are horny but not for 5/10s.
And then there's incels AKA 4/10 men without a social circle. Oh yeah, it's certainly over.