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[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

Look man. I honestly think the only difference between you and me is responsibility. You guys remind me of my brother, who can be an insufferable asshole. You guys need some tough love.

[–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

They need to clean up their room.

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Exactly. I’m willing to bet they don’t clean their rooms. I know how stupid this sounds, but it’s a small win that makes you feel better.

Taking responsibility and making your self better, makes other people see you better as well.

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It's not stupid at all though, when you think about it. Recognising that the problem is not other people but instead taking responsibility for their own life is a difficult step, but it starts small. Those little improvements matter, just starting with cleaning up your room becomes much more when your life continues to improve.