That's assuming everyone is a narcissist and blatantly wants double standards as long as they're on the good side of it. I've always been surprised at how many people I know online turned out to be women, because there's this subconscious idea that women don't exist on the internet. It's seriously impossible to tell the difference, even when someone acts very stereotypical of one gender you're often wrong. I don't see them proclaiming it loud and clear, the only people I see doing that are transtrenders. Because it doesn't matter.

Most people do want unfair special treatment, but being a woman doesn't get you the same privileges online as in real life. Being behind a screen cuts off both the Women Are Wonderful Effect and the sexual appeal to men that makes them simp. Additionally, strength becomes irrelevant, so women can't use the excuse of being "weak" to make men do everything for them either.