Lately even my male friends are gaslighting me

submitted by Mazurro from self.RealIncels

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[–]Mazurro[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

They knew it's over for me for a long time - especially when I had huge depression breakdown few years ago. The reason why they do this is because I am achieving stuff outside the scope of inceldom and dating, I got a nice job which I like, I finished my degree, I am more entertained with stuff I do, I am not stressing about life anymore, I got 2 surgeries etc.

They think that because of that it's possible, but I am still subhuman in looks plus inexperienced at 23yo plus I am not NT, autistic-like dude. I could try, it still fails.

[–]iamonlyoneman 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

Find a charity to volunteer your time

[–]greybeard 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

why?

[–]iamonlyoneman 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Because you need to spend less time commiserating with yourself and more time helping other people. It's one of the few sure-fire ways to get to feeling better, when you help others.

[–]greybeard 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I haven't tried that yet, I'll keep my eyes open

[–]Mazurro[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

For what lol