What are you trying to accomplish here, starting some unnecessary drama an play us off against each other? We obviously do and can have different opinions and might discuss stuff, and that is okay. So what if some people are more direct or not as "nice" and mellow as others would like them to be. I still have seen much more mutual support in female only groups than what you claim to be common in such settings. If you are a male trying the good old divide and conquer game: sorry, it is not working.