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[–]Happy_face_caller 6 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

They might be the worst yes. We are pretty much regressing in some ways.

I was in my 20s in the 80/90s. Yes it was during the aids crisis, but men had ‘no fat chicks’ signs Literally on their car and girls fought over them and took those same crumbs.

Ever seen a music video from that era? Girls wanted to emulate them, not kardashians who are at least making money.

Calling yourself a feminist was like saying I’m a carpet munching butch lesbian, which they reacted to like a death.

My gens men invented the term “feminazi” they literally compared themselves to Holocaust survivors if women have rights and boundaries.

A guy broke into My Freinds Aunts house and raped her and when the two male cops came they asked her if she was a virgin and when she said no, they left without even finishing the report.

Ever seen Anita Hill testifying? Or even Kavanaugh, that was the boys will be boys era when we were supposed to be flattered by rape and sexual assault.

Yeah it’s improved little and I’m certainly not trying to compare the two, just pointing out how bad it’s kind of always been to varying degrees.

I felt the exact same way as you then and shook my damn head as well.

Pickmes have always been their to debase themselves and take those crumbs and trip over each other for frat boy wannabes.

Sorry you are having to go through the same thing.

Patriarchy is their drug

[–]imafreespirit 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

Zoomer girls grew up with the sexualization of women in pop culture, sex positivism and free access hardcore pornography and all this fused together and created a generation of genuine dick worshipers. Problem is the men won't marry them as they can have sex with them already, so these young women have to sink to new depths of desperation and servitude to make these men even think about keeping them around long term.

[–]Immortallogic 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

This is where FDS type ideology needs to continue to become more mainstream. At least it raises the bar for those who still are prioritizing men.

[–]Immortallogic 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Echoing what others are saying, the internet, social media and the increasing vapid culture of society, along with damaging libfeb ideals like sex positivity, bdsm, and now the trans movement and things like onlyfans, has the potential for being extremely damaging. What's worse is that alot of young mothers are no different.

I'm a gen Y'er and only got my first smartphone at around 20 or so, it was all about MSN and Napster back in my day haha... Now these kids are getting phones and all that goes along with it (instagram, porn, always messaging guys, tik Tok) at around 12/13 I guess? Maybe sooner.

I think things will get worse before they get better, but hopefully the pendulum swings back. We're definitely at the bottom at a trough right now and probably will be, also contributed to "wokeness" and being PC making people less and less commonsensical. The young generation is so open minded their brains are littering the floor haha.

What YOU can do is if you have young girls or know parents with young girls, talk to them about these things.... Try to show them the whole story of why things like putting out all your info online can be super damaging. Instead of just saying "don't do it" tell them why. Save posts that show women talking about how these things have harmed them.

I'm working on guide for girls to help guide them through things like not being negatively influenced, how to act around guys, how to maintain your independence, how to dress so that you don't look like a pornified doll, etc.