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[–]yayblueberries 18 insightful - 4 fun18 insightful - 3 fun19 insightful - 4 fun -  (5 children)

I'm biased because I'm a lesbian but I wish it were possible for all women to stop having sex with men too. They definitely do not deserve sex after what they have turned it into over time. I cannot imagine having to have sex with them, they want such degrading, disgusting things that seem to often point to closeted homosexuality AND a hatred toward women at the same time.

[–]nonpenishaver 10 insightful - 4 fun10 insightful - 3 fun11 insightful - 4 fun -  (3 children)

I used to be really confused as to why men evolved to get off on sex that's as violent and degrading as possible, but after taking into account what sex with men does to women, it doesn't surprise me anymore.

[–][deleted] 3 insightful - 3 fun3 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 3 fun -  (2 children)

Can you elaborate on this? I'm all ears.

[–]nonpenishaver 14 insightful - 3 fun14 insightful - 2 fun15 insightful - 3 fun -  (1 child)

I think because of the fact that sex with men can cause so many problems for women, from STDs to pregnancy, both which can cause pain and death for women, it makes sense for sex to be linked to dehumanization and violence in men's minds. I dunno if that makes sense to anyone but me. But in order to feel okay doing that to a person you must have to evolve to see them as inhuman, and to enjoy inflicting pain on them. Many men rape young girls and get them pregnant, knowing childbirth at her age could kill her.. and they just don't care. As a woman that's inconceivable to me because I see women as human but male sexuality just doesn't allow them to see us as human.

[–][deleted] 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I understand what you mean here. I never made this connection, but I think it’s valid. I want to dig deeper into it now.

[–]lookingodie 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

this