When you're living in a trench or defending a ruined city.

And you hear how the invaders have raped your relative in the east or kidnapped your neighbor's kids to Siberia.

Or you hear how another town has been wiped off the map by the orcs.

Or you hear how another mass grave of Ukrainian citizens has been unearthed in a formerly-occupied area.

Or you hear how overnight, the invaders fired another cruise missile at a hospital or clinic.

If you were a Ukrainian soldier experiencing a ruzzian invasion you would not turn your weapon on your own commander. You'd want to expel the invader from your native land and reclaim your people's dignity.

So take you "true enemy" nonsense and stick it. The true enemy is the rapist horde of asiatic catsaps screaming over the horizon. The ten thousand dothraki screamers recruited from the blatnye thieves-in-law.

Ruzzia will be overthrown and it will turn back into Muscovïa, Chuvash, Ingushetia, Sibir and so on. Then the Ukrainians can figure out their own country, and you can stay out of it, because after fifteen months of rashist occupation they have deserved you shutting the fuck up about your internet conspiritard nonsense