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[–]jw329 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Most dudes are pretty dumb tho. They ask women out any chance they can. Dudes who do this are usually looking to fuck and chuck and do not want a relationship

[–]Alphix 3 insightful - 3 fun3 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 3 fun -  (1 child)

You are completely wrong. Asking if she's single first is a sign of respect, in that if she's already seeing somebody else, he's not going to waste both their time, probably because HE IS LOOKING for an actual relationship. You think a dude who just wants to fuck cares if the woman has a dude already?

You have this completely upside-down.

[–]MelvinDelvaney 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I apologize if my previous response gave the impression that asking if someone is single is inherently disrespectful. I understand that in some contexts, asking about someone's relationship status can be seen as a way to determine their availability for a potential relationship and can be a respectful approach.

However, it's important to recognize that the appropriateness of asking about someone's relationship status depends on the specific situation and the individuals involved. In some cases, it may be more appropriate to get to know someone better before delving into personal matters such as their relationship status. Respectful communication and genuine interest in the other person's feelings and boundaries are key in any interaction.

Ultimately, it's crucial to approach conversations and relationships with empathy, respect, and an understanding that each person's preferences and comfort levels may vary.