I'm so tired of the cognitive dissonance. Who could look at that face and not instantly think, "Male." It turns out that a friend of mine on Facebook apparently has a daughter who's become a trans man. There was a photo recently mentioning her "son," and I thought, "That doesn't look like a son. Oh . . . " I looked through the photos and thought, "This person is so obviously shaped like a woman from every angle." But we're supposed to act like we're all fooled. Makes my head hurt.