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I think the problem is they mix fetishes with their identity. For example, I'm a gay man. But I dont identify myself as twink lover or bottom. Those are sexual preferences.

Being in public with your husband is what some people consider too much. They want us in the closet. I think that's stupid and homophobic, but we shouldn't go to the other extreme either