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[–]CaptainMooseEx-Bathhouse Employee 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I was definitely attracted to gay men as a “straight woman”. It was a pretty horrible place to be in. Then I thought it must have been because that was a “safe” way to have crushes and feelings that were never going to be materialised… life makes so much more sense since I understand that I’m trans

Based on her other posts, this woman is over 30, has only been on testosterone for 5 months, and is now buying wigs because she wants to become a drag queen. How the fuck do you go so long in your heterosexual life without being attracted to even one of the 98% of men who are opposite-sex attracted? Literally, my first crush was another gay teenager and we're operating with just 2% of the population able to consent to the same sex.

Yep, I mistakenly identified as lesbian and then bisexual for over a decade because I knew I wasn’t straight, and denied/repressed my attraction to men for a long time because I didn’t want to be straight, not to mention the sexual dysphoria.

I’m actually not attracted to women at all, never was, despite having had multiple long term serious relationships with them, and once I realized I was trans, and attracted to gay men and not straight men, it was like everything fell into place.

If any lesbian and bi women on dropthet ever wonder why gay men seem hesitant around you, it's because these types of women are all too common. Also why I never trust a woman who writes slash porn who claims to be a lesbian. Why you so obsessed with two dudes fucking if you aren't into it?

[–]Athelhilda4Questioning 6 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

How the fuck do you go so long in your heterosexual life without being attracted to even one of the 98% of men who are opposite-sex attracted?

It's hard to be attracted to someone who sees you as a walking, talking sex toy.

If any lesbian and bi women on dropthet ever wonder why gay men seem hesitant around you, it's because these types of women are all too common. Also why I never trust a woman who writes slash porn who claims to be a lesbian. Why you so obsessed with two dudes fucking if you aren't into it?

The sexuality of women is a lot more mental and emotional than the sexuality of men. And what a woman likes in porn doesn't necessarily correlate to what she likes in real life, for example: there are a surprisingly large amount of straight women who like lesbian porn.