LifestyleDetransitioner coming out to boyfriend who is deep in the gender woo.

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[–][deleted] 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

I get the desire for gender neutral bathrooms and such in theory, the problem is in action they tend to convert the women's rooms into the gender neutral room. Women are much more likely to be sexually harassed in mixed sex spaces and so we need places specific for us. Gender neutral is fine, if it's in addition to traditional sexed spaces, otherwise it's bad.

His boyfriend/fiance is like a TRA who isn't up to date on the latest TRA jargon. He's working off of like 2015 gender ideology in 2022, we're well passed sex and gender being different things now.

[–]TransspeciesUnicornI sexually identify as a mythical sparkly equine 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

the problem is in action they tend to convert the women's rooms into the gender neutral room

Yeah, that's exactly what they did at my university to cut corners when I was still in college. To be fair, in some campus buildings they did construct a third "All Gender" toilet that was separate from the male/female toilets. So whatever I guess. But in other campus buildings where they either didn't have enough money or space or whatever they just turned the women's bathroom into the "gender neutral" toilet while the men's of course was left well alone. 🙄

[–]HelloMomo 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

In the library at my woke university, the bathrooms on the left side of the building are a men's room and a women's room, and the ones on the right side are "gender inclusive". It's clearly not a universal solation, but in the context of a large building that's already going to have multiple bathrooms, I think it makes sense.

[–]pacmanla 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

So he didn't know? I just don't believe it, but I'm happy for the couple from what I gather from the comments. Didn't watch video, just read the comments. "Love is love", but sex is sex also & two males shouldn't have to lie to themselves that they're in a "straight" relationship with each other.

[–]xanditAGAB (Assigned Gay at Birth)[S] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

he knew, he wants her to stay a trans woman (he had srs) but the the op wants to be a guy again, though a guy wearing makeup and long hair. He's back on testosterone.

[–]pacmanla 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Good for him that he's going back to presenting (since he never stopped being male) as his natal sex. Too bad his SO wants to continue the charade as presenting as a "straight" couple. I wish guys like him would just admit that they're attracted to feminine presenting males & acknowledge they're still attracted to males. Just males who may have artificially made themselves appear as "women". I honestly don't have a problem with that & wish them nothing but the best. It's the lying to themselves & others, as well as trying to redefine sexuality that I take issue with.

[–]verystablegenius 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

this is so weird

[–]xanditAGAB (Assigned Gay at Birth)[S] 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Theres a part 2

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Wn2O0YDx4U0