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[–][deleted] 24 insightful - 3 fun24 insightful - 2 fun25 insightful - 3 fun -  (1 child)

I realized I don't think a cis lesbian has ever shown interests in me

Yeah, there's a reason for that. You're a man.

I would expect equal attraction from all wlw.

Little entitled there, aren't you?

Wow I really got all the transphobes here riled up lol. keep exposing yourself and I'll keep reporting.

Got to protect the circle jerk. Can't let any reality break through.

Women grow up being taught that men should be the one to make the first move. Most people know this is dumb but its so ingrained in our minds. You even see in a lot of lesbian relationships that theres a lot of flirting and awkwardness at first, and then there's the whole "useless lesbian" stereotype which i think perfectly explains my point. Geuss what I'm trying to say is essentially cis women have these reservations about making the first move, and transwomen/nb people have already kind of broken away from that mindset. If that makes sense.

The useless lesbian thing is used by men almost exclusively. Which is why it's plastered all over r/actuallesbians but was basically never seen in r/truelesbians when it was around.

Any lesbian waiting around for a man to make the first move is doing things very, very wrong.

[–]IridescentAnacondastrictly dickly 10 insightful - 11 fun10 insightful - 10 fun11 insightful - 11 fun -  (0 children)

Honestly the "useless lesbian" is probably a useful cover.

Sure. I'm too timid to make the first move, that's right. You're such an utterly valid woman and I'm soooo intimidated. Oops, I just realized I forgot to wash my hair tonight, gotta run!