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[–]dilsencySame-sex community 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I would try not to internalize that. Some men are going to dismiss you for being feminine, whether their justification is that they don't like male femininity, or that they try to "explain you away" with calling you trans, it's the same thing in the end.

[–]Kai_Decadence[S] 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Oh for sure, I've been resilient to this stuff for years now and I know not to internalize it because that's part of the problem with the whole HSTS thing where those feminine men clearly internalized the negativeness directed at feminine gay men.