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[–]IridescentAnacondastrictly dickly 21 insightful - 1 fun21 insightful - 0 fun22 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

In reality, the world is more dangerous for gay men than it is for trans people. And it's dangerous for trans people only because they are sometimes mistaken for gay men.

I'll be honest, earlier in my life I made a point to adopt gender conforming behaviors because I knew doing so would be physically and professionally safer. Since I don't believe in "gender" -- these are merely behaviors, they have nothing to do with an "authentic" self -- I didn't lose any sense of self by doing this. My "true self" transcends superficial behaviors. That's something that trans ideology can't comprehend.

[–][deleted] 20 insightful - 2 fun20 insightful - 1 fun21 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I hope this isn't inappropriate, but I've heard more trans people call themselves the t slur than any other group of people.

This erasure is mind-boggling. At this point, I've taken "LGBTQ++ safe space" to mean "space where people's pronouns are asked", not necessarily a space where a gay man can walk in with his partner or where a lesbian won't be harassed by straight men. That is why LGB needs to drop the T.

[–]Hannibalboy93 13 insightful - 2 fun13 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Your obsessed with whats in trans peoples pants, says the trans person obsessed with her own genitals.

[–]dilsencySame-sex community 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

How is the bigotry faced by a social group you are not a part of validating?

[–][deleted] 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

I actually used to know lots of transwomen who said they didn't mind the t-slur because it acknowledged they were trans.

These people have serious self-loathing issues.

[–]Q-Continuum-kin 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I think it's just narcissism. If they manage to pass they suddenly lose the ability to forcibly make everyone else uncomfortable and maintain 100% of the attention in the room.

[–]Hannibalboy93 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

yes, your right, I have seen some of them say they don't want to pass, these people are nuts.

[–]Three_oneFourWanted for thought crimes in countless ideologies 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Because it means this person has successfully tricked the other people into believing that this woman is a man. Facing bigotry for a group they are not a part of is validating because it means the bigots think the person is a part of that social group. Imagine a line cook making a cake and being called a bad professional baker. They aren't a baker, but for someone to think that they are would tell the line cook that they aren't that bad at making cakes considering they aren't actually a professional baker

[–]Hannibalboy93 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Why are trans people transitioning when they know the suicide rate is high.

[–]Hannibalboy93 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

Whats the dumb artists name?

[–]Hannibalboy93 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

If they knew you had a vagina they wouldn't call you a fag they would be like, "oh, its a girl".