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[–]Virginia_Plain 36 insightful - 9 fun36 insightful - 8 fun37 insightful - 9 fun -  (1 child)

Oh my fucking God. More issues than a newsstand. You don't want to transition, you only want a gay man, and it has to be a gay man because if it was a bisexual or pansexual dude you'd be afraid he'd not be seeing you as a man. No fucking shit. Wish in one hand, shit in the other, see which one fills up first.

Yes, a gay dude is "off limit." I fell in love with a straight dude when I was a teenager. He is "off limit," especially now that we are both grown up and he has a wife and 2 kids. Should I have told him not to see me as a man, to "do the work on himself" (as some responders replied)?

Gender identity is about forcing you to play these head games with yourself, and then see if someone else will then play the same head game along with you for the same shitty prize.

[–]cryptoterfthrowTomcattin' 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

'More issues than a newsstand' I love that