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[–]loveSloaneSuperDuperBi 19 insightful - 4 fun19 insightful - 3 fun20 insightful - 4 fun -  (1 child)

Is it becoming a thing for straight guys to pretend to be “gay” to sleep with transmen (and Im assuming quite a few of these “transmen” look very clearly female, maybe with like a “gender neutral” hair cut or some shit)? Or are these ladies just lying on the internet?

Because I know gay men aren’t actually sleeping with them.

Genuinely asking because these posts pop up a lot and I’m always so floored by the number of responses and I can’t tell if the commenters are full of shit or being played.

[–]TransspeciesUnicornI sexually identify as a mythical sparkly equine 21 insightful - 2 fun21 insightful - 1 fun22 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I mean, you've got a bunch of women, some of whom aren't even very masculine looking, literally begging for dick. How often do you see anything like that? I'd be shocked if there weren't any straight men taking advantage of the situation.

And anyway, straight men pretending to be gay in order to bypass women's defenses wasn't a completely unheard of phenomenon even before now:

https://www.theguardian.com/uk/2003/mar/16/ameliahill.theobserver https://www.psychologicalscience.org/publications/observer/obsonline/women-warm-up-faster-to-gay-men-than-straight-guys-study-suggests.html