ColonizationHow does one supposed to improve straight man's experience of not getting lesbian matches?

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[–]julesburm1891 30 insightful - 1 fun30 insightful - 0 fun31 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

Okay, so they want people to be forced to match with them? What do they honestly think will happen next? They’re just going to get ghosted and still get their feelings hurt. So then what? Are they going to try to force women into accepting dates with them? To fucking them? To marrying them? Really, where does it end? Because at every single step the outcome will be the same—lesbians will still be avoiding these guys and fucking/dating/marrying each other. Straight men pushing themselves into spaces where no one there wants them are going to get their feelings hurt regardless of how hard they try to push past other’s boundaries.

[–]shveya 23 insightful - 1 fun23 insightful - 0 fun24 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

I've heard of people hiding the fact that they were obese on dating apps and thinking they could sweep their match off their feet with their stunning personality when they meet irl. A lot of hetero trans-identified people simply don't understand human sexuality, so they're likely thinking like this.

[–]ShotTopic 15 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

As someone overweight (but working on myself - so far down 45 pounds!) that's so ridiculous. I know what I look like, I don't want to trick people. That just wastes everone's time and makes the rejection even more painful.

[–]shveya 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Congrats on the weight loss!

[–]ShotTopic 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Thanks!!