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[–]Eurowoman24 13 insightful - 2 fun13 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

I'm straight but I'll try to answer some of your question. I think that the straight women who fetishize gay men seem to not see them as individuals who simply like dudes. But as a group of inferior,weaker,sensitive,feminine men which they sometimes develop an attraction to. Personally I find that icky on the part of straight women, as long as gay men don't criticize my body or call it disgusting just for being female I think we should be friends and just enjoy our mutual love of dick. ;)

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This is really key. If you talk to these women you’ll quickly notice they consider gay men fundamentally different from other men. Sometimes they think of gay men as inherently more feminine, or softer, or safer than heterosexual men. For other women, they think of gay men as inherently more sexual and masculine, because they can “dominate” another man. It’s one of the two extremes. In either case they don’t believe gay men to be just... normal men.

[–]Eurowoman24 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Are there more ftm tops then bottoms? you might be on to something here as well.