i tried to make a post here but it got deleted because of some mod rules but there was another "would you date a trans guy" post on a gay subreddit, this time a highly moderated one, and a bisexual woman was regulating it....yes, on a sub for gay men which i found incredibly strange but this is the amazing part to me: she put some sort of warning up saying, "the only acceptable non transphobic answer is genital preferences. Please report any transphobic answer. The trans person said she was "pre op and not on testosterone yet".

You would think this was a troll trying to make their group look bad but when you click on their profile, it's a 4 year old profile with lots of posts so it was an authentic genuine profile of a woman with breasts and a vagina asking gay men if they would date her. I gave the most obsequious, submissive, polite answer you could think of by saying "i dont think being gay is a social identity and i dont think they can fall in love with self identity" and my account got banned from that subreddit. So it's interesting how they DEMAND you say "genital preferences" because thats the only acceptable answer and then turn around and say we're gender fetishists. And when you read through all the responses, everyone is basically APOLOGIZING because their answer is "sorry, i have a genital preference" and there's a bisexual woman looking through all the responses making sure thats the only answer given. Jesus.