It's so sad. You can almost try to make out their faces and see how they would have looked like if this didnt destroy them. They could have both been very handsome straight men with a beautiful wife and kids. Just their destruction is horrifying and these are 2 straight men. Their lives are finished and there's no going back. If this saddens me, i imagine it enrages and infuriates the heterosexuals who think we're the ones doing this to them since the "T" attaches itself to us.