r/askgaybros -Gayden is convinced he's a biological man and has a male vagina. Also proceeds to call me froggie. I'm tired of those trolls.

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[–]winterwillow 18 insightful - 1 fun18 insightful - 0 fun19 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

What strikes me when I read these kind of posts is how rudimentary and stereotypically 'heterosexual' their idea of having sex is. Like it's all about putting the stick in the hole. And all holes are the same, ass/vagina/neo vagina and all sticks too, dick/phallo/dildo, and as long as you have enough holes and sticks between you and no one has one of those uneducated preferences, they don't get why there would be an issue.

The OP in the post write that they plan to have phallo, but if enough men like her vagina she'll keep using it instead. Like 'well if I need a stick I'll get one, otherwise I'll just keep my hole and use that instead of the other hole'. And she seems genuinly surprised to learn that no, phallo and dick aren't the same. I think some gay transmen only think of getting phallo for aesthetics, since they're heterosexual females, they never plan on trying to use it or dating another 'gay' transman.

[–]fuckupaddamsBisexual Terve 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

The OP in the post write that they plan to have phallo, but if enough men like her vagina she'll keep using it instead.

Imagine casually considering permanently altering your body like that, not even because of crippling dysphoria, but only to please the one group of men who you're going to be the most unsuccessful in gaining sexual attention from. She's so casual about it, like I like my vagina, I'm okay with my vagina, but instead of seeking the millions of men who will be okay with having sex with my vagina, I'm open to butchering my vagina to create a fake penis if enough hesitant gay men say they might consider sex with it.

[–]chandra 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

What strikes me when I read these kind of posts is how rudimentary and stereotypically 'heterosexual' their idea of having sex is. Like it's all about putting the stick in the hole.

They have to understand sex this way, because it's the only way that they can claim to be functionally the same as actual men/women. If you understand sex as a full-body experience, and consider all the aspects of how real dicks/vaginas feel and behave, then trans people's fake genitals just can't compare. Stick in hole, though? That they can do.