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[–]fuck_reddit 12 insightful - 2 fun12 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

I'm more of an individualist, so my advice would be to have to make positive changes in your personal interactions. I have found it much easier to trap flies with honey than vinegar. Polite questions are better at undermining someone's perception of the world than pointed critique. So I guess, if you encounter a trans man, act supportive and polite and ask questions about their identity, feelings, attitudes towards gay men, how gay men see themselves etc.

[–]just_lesbian_things[S] 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I can't say I'm well versed in how heterosexual women or gay men see themselves, but I can certainly strive to be more diplomatic. Thank you for your input, I will definitely keep that in mind.