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[–]Shadow_Lurker 11 insightful - 3 fun11 insightful - 2 fun12 insightful - 3 fun -  (3 children)

This is either a troll or a really tone deaf person lol

It's not like she has no notion of how actual real gay men act and is merely emulating porn/yaoi (oxymoron, I know). Not at all....

That's a real and honest gay men right there!

[–]OPPRESSED_REPTILIANIntersex male | GNC | Don't call me "a gay", "twink" or "queen" 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Actually I think her words are very much like how gay men, unfortunately, view sex.

"I have a vag so I'm an ultimate bottom" sounds very similar to the guys I've met who genuinely believe that being a "bottom" makes you "less than a man" and you may as well be female/not have a penis if you're not topping guys. Sexism like that is very common among gay men, and it's part of why I don't date, because I don't want a partner who sees me as a "failed male" or a "replacement female" because of my looks or my refusal to "top" other males.

[–]roguecanine 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Damn here I was thinking there'd be more respect between gay men couples ; ( It sucks they would think so. What about those who switch lmao

[–]Shadow_Lurker 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Depends on how you would define "gay couple".

Most of this shit is applicable only to gay hook up culture, which is shady and sleazy to the point of traumatizing some people. It's not the romanticized uwu thing most people on tumblr/twitter tend to believe.

Hell, most people that exist within this culture have little to no intention of pursuing long term same-sex relationships and are just in for the casual fuck here and there.

Also, most of them are closeted, which actually explains alot if you think about it...