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[–]OPPRESSED_REPTILIANIntersex male | GNC | Don't call me "a gay", "twink" or "queen" 7 insightful - 5 fun7 insightful - 4 fun8 insightful - 5 fun -  (4 children)

Maybe don't refer to homosexuals as "gays". It's really condescending at best, disrespectful at worst. And honestly I don't think many actually are. Just the "woke" ones obsessed with being morally pure. I'd wager that, in all people regardless of orientation, most people would not date/have sex with a trans person.

[–]insta 37 insightful - 7 fun37 insightful - 6 fun38 insightful - 7 fun -  (3 children)

Maybe don't refer to homosexuals as "gays". It's really condescending at best, disrespectful at worst.

It is not. Let's calm down.

[–]OPPRESSED_REPTILIANIntersex male | GNC | Don't call me "a gay", "twink" or "queen" 2 insightful - 4 fun2 insightful - 3 fun3 insightful - 4 fun -  (2 children)

It is. Just because you might be okay with it doesn't mean everyone else is. I'm okay with being called a "faggot" but do you think that gives me the right to go around calling whoever I please that word?

[–]joogabahGay shows the way 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

At least "gay" originally meant a bachelor and was also a synonym for happy, instead of that slur "queer" that was used to terrorize men to go to Vietnam. I hate the word "queer". Might as well say "perv" or "weirdo". Weirdo pride!

Also, I believe absent gender indoctrination, same sex desire is accessible to anyone; it is not a genetic condition. That doesn't mean everyone will develop a taste for it but the most glaring, primary reason it is avoided is because nations universally condemn it (even the ones that accept it now).

[–]OPPRESSED_REPTILIANIntersex male | GNC | Don't call me "a gay", "twink" or "queen" 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Well I think I am more repulsed by "gay" than "queer." At least "queer" meant weird. I do feel weird, and I don't feel happy. So don't call me "gay" or "happy" and dump that "happiness, rainbows, flamboyancy and humiliating funny acts to entertain people like a clown" bullshit on me because that's never what being homosexual was about for me. It's a very dark place and trying to sugarcoat it with this rainbows and happiness nonsense, especially when it's honestly all so fake and insincere and literally just exists to use homosexuals for entertainment or profit, is sickening.

I don't care if others want to call themselves "The gays", I am just asking it not be used as a "blanket term" like "queer" because not all of us like that. If you wouldn't refer to homosexuals as "queers" or "the faggots" don't call them "the gays" either. Gay is not a noun.