LesbianLesbian on /r/offmychest tries to find conversion therapy because she thinks her lack of attraction to girldicks is "toxic"

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[–]oofreesouloo⚡super lesbian⚡ 61 insightful - 1 fun61 insightful - 0 fun62 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

There's something very wrong when STRAIGHT people, in particular, STRAIGHT MEN, are much more supportive to lesbians than lgbtqwerty community. Thats why I stay the hell away from this fucked up community and hang with the straights now. LGBDropTheT is the only place I like.

[–]florasisHOMOSEXUAL FEMALE/Pussy is my God and I'm monotheist 37 insightful - 5 fun37 insightful - 4 fun38 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

Yeah. You will find most respect from normal people today than from crazy blue haired queers

[–]les4leshomonormative 20 insightful - 1 fun20 insightful - 0 fun21 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Agreed! I'm so glad that normies of reddit are coming through for this poor woman

[–]HelloMomo 20 insightful - 1 fun20 insightful - 0 fun21 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I've been wondering for a while if the straights might yet save us. Straight men are not down with dick either, and they are not going to accept this bullshit of being told they have to. At some point, surely the TRAs are going to start coming for the straights, and when they do, I think that might be when society's goodwill for them runs out.

[–]saged 14 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 0 fun15 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Both groups share the love of women born women so they came together. It also proves how straight men (and truly straight men) aren't really touched by TRAs. They are often confused when people bring up what's going on with lesbians, you'd think the same would be done to straight men, but I guess it's harder to bully straight men into accepting people born male as women they should date/sleep with then it is for a group of men to bully lesbians/women.

Trans men get told to fuck off by gay men all the time, yet there's gay TRA's who are yelling about Terfs and lesbians. I've seen straight men say trans women are women, just not women they want to date or have sex with. We all know what happens when Lesbians say that though. Even straight women aren't expected to date trans men and are not shamed for it. In fact thinking about it, I don't think I've ever seen anyone complain or push trans men/women dating.

[–]julesburm1891 50 insightful - 1 fun50 insightful - 0 fun51 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

My fiancée and I had a conversation about trans people a few months ago. We were on the same page, but she couldn’t understand why I care so deeply about this issue.

The answer is: this. This right here is why I care so goddam much about trans people forcing their way into LGB spaces and distorting things. LGB people, particularly young people, are being made to feel they’re toxic and terrible because they’re LGB. It’s so incredibly harmful and it breaks my heart.

PS: can someone who still has reddit please comment and tell her that she’s not a bad person for being a homosexual?

[–]Death_Tephra 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Someone put a radfem comment on there. They will probably get insta banned lol.

[–]FrostyNugsI'm allergic to nuts 32 insightful - 1 fun32 insightful - 0 fun33 insightful - 1 fun -  (23 children)

You guys sending her supportive messages are the real MVPs ❤

[–]florasisHOMOSEXUAL FEMALE/Pussy is my God and I'm monotheist 13 insightful - 4 fun13 insightful - 3 fun14 insightful - 4 fun -  (22 children)

Yeah, but I also think she's a bit of an idiot or she's so young. That kind of weak and very easy to influence character is the worst turn off in a woman

[–]FrostyNugsI'm allergic to nuts 32 insightful - 1 fun32 insightful - 0 fun33 insightful - 1 fun -  (16 children)

The young or easily influenced are the most vulnerable to TQ guilt tripping, and they're most in need of the reassurance that they're not terrible people for not being attracted to transgender people.

[–]florasisHOMOSEXUAL FEMALE/Pussy is my God and I'm monotheist 14 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 0 fun15 insightful - 1 fun -  (15 children)

I doubt I would've let someone convince me to be bad for not liking dick But I guess some people are really in constant need of acceptance and let themselves being convinced of anything.

[–]FrostyNugsI'm allergic to nuts 29 insightful - 1 fun29 insightful - 0 fun30 insightful - 1 fun -  (14 children)

The girl in the post might just be really young. Teenagers are super concerned with what their peers think of them, it means the world to them at that age.

[–]florasisHOMOSEXUAL FEMALE/Pussy is my God and I'm monotheist 14 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 0 fun15 insightful - 1 fun -  (13 children)

That's why kids are so vulnerable. We here are adults, but the teens,poor them

[–]RedditHatesLesbiansHomosexual Not Queer 8 insightful - 3 fun8 insightful - 2 fun9 insightful - 3 fun -  (12 children)

I'm a teenager growing up just as this TQ stuff is at its peak and I've literally never felt bad for not liking dick or for being a lesbian, I've never been super concerned with what my peers think of me either. I just live my life and don't care. Just being a teenager doesn't mean you're weak willed and have 0 critical thinking skills. Someone who is this easily influenced would have also been susceptible to dozens of other harmful trends had she been born a bit earlier, such as cutting.

[–]VioletRemiCat, homosexual one 18 insightful - 3 fun18 insightful - 2 fun19 insightful - 3 fun -  (3 children)

Not everyone have a nerve or ability to go against others. Majority can't.

When people were beating me or burned down, I stood back and was beaten again, but out of 1000 people, 999 would not do as I did, as it big risk for health, and in general troubles in society (especially for extraverts it is hard to resist the society), not everyone want or can take such risks (I still have health issues, 20 years past, for acting like I did).

[–]florasisHOMOSEXUAL FEMALE/Pussy is my God and I'm monotheist 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

If you write comments like that I seriously cannot stop to having a crush on you :D

[–]VioletRemiCat, homosexual one 11 insightful - 3 fun11 insightful - 2 fun12 insightful - 3 fun -  (1 child)

Don't make me blush on public, lol.

[–]florasisHOMOSEXUAL FEMALE/Pussy is my God and I'm monotheist 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (7 children)

Right, but you're very mature for your age. I didn't care about fitting with others either, but that's because of my very introverted and inside focused mindset. A lot of people, especially the ones your age, really need to fit and just want approval. She wants to be part of the LGBTwhatthefuck community and they're telling them being really homosexual is a bad fetish

[–]VioletRemiCat, homosexual one 9 insightful - 4 fun9 insightful - 3 fun10 insightful - 4 fun -  (1 child)

I think our introversion could save us from many troubles, while extraverts suffer much more.

[–]florasisHOMOSEXUAL FEMALE/Pussy is my God and I'm monotheist 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

That's what I thought too. It can really save you. Extroverts are so dependent on others people, it's basically slavery.

[–]RedditHatesLesbiansHomosexual Not Queer 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

Right, I think it's just because I'm introverted to the extreme, not particularly maturity. I feel for people my age who do just want to fit in, I was only pointing out that not all of us are like that.

[–]florasisHOMOSEXUAL FEMALE/Pussy is my God and I'm monotheist 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

See? Another introvert. Introversion and thougthfulness are very correlated, as they are with independence from people. I know not of you are like that, but it's common teen behaviour. Usually when getting old people tend to care less about others.

[–][deleted] 21 insightful - 1 fun21 insightful - 0 fun22 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

The demographics of AL are that a large majority are under 25 and a large portion or that are under 20. Odds are she's just young. I think most of us would have thought was she is thinking if we were 16 and in the toxic world of AL.

[–]florasisHOMOSEXUAL FEMALE/Pussy is my God and I'm monotheist 14 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 0 fun15 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I fear for all this young easy to influence people. I'm glad I will never have kids. Protecting them from this shitty world is really a nightmare.

[–]RedditHatesLesbiansHomosexual Not Queer 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I'm 16 right now and stuff like this is what had me running for the metaphorical hills when it comes to online lesbian communities.

[–][deleted] 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yep, this is pretty much what I see with young lesbians over there. No there isn't anything wrong with transitioning as an AGP male— we're allowed to do what we want with out bodies as adults, however young girls in those communities need to understand that the people they are interacting with are basically heterosexual males, so they need to treat them with the same caution as they would treat heterosexual males. It backfires on the lesbian / trans community to tell young girls that they should treat transbians as women, as lesbians end being put in situations where they feel unsafe and cotton onto the fact that transbians are essentially heterosexual men, and so they run for the hills as you put it. The end result of that is that the lesbian side of the community doesn't support the transbian side and vice-versa, and they end up socialising in different circles anyway.

[–]VioletRemiCat, homosexual one 13 insightful - 3 fun13 insightful - 2 fun14 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

She could be autistic too, or she could be from very homophobic background and suffered a lot of harm.

[–]bradjohnsonishere2 31 insightful - 1 fun31 insightful - 0 fun32 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

That was hard to read I sent her a message telling her to tell those people to f*** off with that homophobic conversion therapy bs

[–]PenseePansyBio-Sex or Bust 11 insightful - 2 fun11 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I PM'd her, too. Not sure if I should write a comment as well; suppose that might dilute my message (if it gets derailed by yet another Operation TRA Freakout). Or could it be helpful, maybe? What do you think?

[–]Gearbeta 26 insightful - 1 fun26 insightful - 0 fun27 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

How much you wanna bet that post is going to get deleted? Can't have the TRAs seeing the consequences of their actions.

[–]FrostyNugsI'm allergic to nuts 29 insightful - 9 fun29 insightful - 8 fun30 insightful - 9 fun -  (2 children)

Literally no one ever tells lesbians they have to be attracted to transwomen! This post is obviously terf propaganda!!!!!11 But lesbereal, if you're not attracted to them, you're a fucking bigot. Be better UwU

[–]8bitgay 20 insightful - 2 fun20 insightful - 1 fun21 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

Literally no one ever tells lesbians they have to be attracted to transwomen!

I find it funny because they love saying that... While in the same breath telling lesbians/gays that we have to feel attracted to transwomen/transmen.

[–]FrostyNugsI'm allergic to nuts 19 insightful - 6 fun19 insightful - 5 fun20 insightful - 6 fun -  (0 children)

Hey now, you don't have to be attracted to trans people! We'll just shame you if you aren't!

[–]8bitgay 14 insightful - 2 fun14 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I mean, it is 2 days old already and it's got only a few comments and upvotes. It isn't gonna get any bigger.

If it was more relevant it would definitely get deleted. Or maybe people would be using it as example that Off My Chest is a toxic sub and must be banned lol

[–]haveanicedaytoo💗💜💙 25 insightful - 1 fun25 insightful - 0 fun26 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

This is heartbreaking. Sometimes I tell people that in the past, some adult L's and G's used to search out conversion therapy on their own, it wasn't all evil parents forcing their children, a lot of it was voluntary. And I'd get some hostile replies back because NO ONE could believe anyone could have that kind of mindset/self-hate to want to convert themselves, (I mean, LG were also killing themselves to stop being L/G as well, so!) but now here it is. It's a different version, but it's still "I'm a horrible person for not worshiping the dick."

I hope someone is messaging this poor girl.

[–]Climblikeabee 30 insightful - 1 fun30 insightful - 0 fun31 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

I JUST finished sending a message to her. I hope she reads it and finds a real lesbian community ❤ I told her I would be happy to talk.

EDIT: I'm also a lesbian who found /AL to be toxic and male-centric as fuck, so I really really feel for this girl.

[–]florasisHOMOSEXUAL FEMALE/Pussy is my God and I'm monotheist 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

You really need to send to us. She needs someone who help to get over the brainwashing. Really. the homosexual/bisexual sane people need to protect the younger people with weak character. We've always fought for each others and protect the others. I'm not fan to the activism and such, but protecting fellow homosexuals is a duty

[–]Climblikeabee 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

You are 100% right, and girls like this in need of help and someone to talk to, ESPECIALLY lesbian/bi girls, are the only reason I'm still on saidit/reddit.

I'm mostly on Ovarit which is still invite only, but I strongly recommend it for women to read content that is relevant to them.

Truly hoping this girl messages me back.

[–]bradjohnsonishere2 18 insightful - 1 fun18 insightful - 0 fun19 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I sent her a message too.

[–]Three_oneFourWanted for thought crimes in countless ideologies 18 insightful - 2 fun18 insightful - 1 fun19 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

She is so fucking self aware already!

I apologise for my sexuality

All I find is conversion therapy

I just want to widen my sexuality to include men, not erase it

She is so self aware and yet so caught up in the BS that she is literally finding nothing but conversion therapy when she looks into changing her sexuality and doesn't find it odd that IT'S FUCKING CONVERSION THERAPY SHE'S LOOKING FOR

I am going to comment to support her and I'll outright say that there are no lesbians with penises, because she needs to hear the truth as many times and as bluntly as possible

Edit: nvm the comments are locked on it?

[–]Canardyyy 14 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 0 fun15 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

That's just sad. This lesbian should just accept that if you are a lesbian, you don't need to want to suck a girlcock because every other "lesbians" claim to like girlcock... if you don't like dick, then that's it. You don't like dicks and you shouldn't forces yourself to enjoy a dick. It's not transphobic.

It's a shame this is what the community has come too, it's toxic and unhealthy for anyone who truly wants to have a safe space within the community and have a group of people sharing similar points of view without being shamed or called transphobic because someone doesn't want to suck on a girlcock, or boypussy.

[–]florasisHOMOSEXUAL FEMALE/Pussy is my God and I'm monotheist 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I can't fucking even.

[–][deleted] 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

surprisingly sane comments and none of the TRA bs!!

[–]MarkJeffersonTight defenses and we draw the line 6 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I'm glad there are some people on Reddit that have not gone crazy. Quite a breath of fresh air. I'm probably already banned from that sub though. They are known for autobans based on where else you are subbed.

Anyway, screw the dominant rainbow "community" on that site. They are not supportive, they are not accepting. They are the complete opposite. Gender ideology enforcing and cultish. And the op there sounds very susceptible to peer pressure from them, based on what she's willing to do to fit in. Not a good thing to be while amongst that selfish, egotistical, and predatory crowd.

[–]mevesiisick of flags 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Thank god all of the (visible) comments are supportive, at least.

[–]wafflegaffWoman. SuperBi. 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

https://archive.vn/WhgYL

[–]Beth-BR 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

"I have been looking into different types of therapy so I can maybe get rid of this toxicity"

I've stopped reading after that.

So essentially, this woman is being shamed for her attraction to women. If that's not homophobia I don't know what is.

[–]divingrightintowork 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I wonder how long until lesbians start 'straightening' their selves with trans identified females - so are in straight-looking relationships where they get to be gay AF and not deal with their internalized homophobia. Kind of sad. But also better than forcing their selves to be in a heterosexual "lesbian" relationship. :(