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[–]onemoredaydream 17 insightful - 1 fun17 insightful - 0 fun18 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

I think it's time for gay people to start going more to ground. Organize with each other through less-public ways. I'm not saying go back in the closet, but when it comes to the spaces where you want to hang out with other gay people only, don't make them accessible to just anyone.

Like maybe having a vetted discord server where it is all people you have met personally, or moderated by someone.

These obnoxious people do it for attention and for a sense of power. If we don't let them in, they can't demand our energy and attention. It sucks that it's come to this; being gay is just a part of who you are. You aren't crazy for wanting to enjoy your sexuality in peace. Your sexuality isn't a political statement.

[–]MyLongestJourney 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

These obnoxious people do it for attention and for a sense of power. If we don't let them in, they can't demand our energy and attention.

They are like vampires man.