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[–]midnight305 18 insightful - 1 fun18 insightful - 0 fun19 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

After being raped and subconsciously forced to date men because of my family values I discovered I was a lesbian because i never liked male parts.

It's also kept me from getting a partner because so far the only lesbians I've meet online has been gold stars and they dony want a tainted woman sadly.

[–]Lapis_Lazuli 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

"Gold star" lesbian here, and I don't care about anyone's gold star. I don't want to date women who are Kinsey 2 bisexuals looking to have some fun before they settle down with Mr. Right, but I certainly don't think of women who have been with men as "tainted." This is true even if we're talking about women who were with men 100% voluntarily and enjoyed it, but the fact you were raped just made makes the situation even sadder. I'm really sorry that the community has made you feel like you're not good enough, because that's not the case at all.

[–]midnight305 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Thank you.

Yeah I've always said I hate being a lesbian because women hate me. But from the comments it just looks like it was a bunch of bitches trolling me.

I appreciate you and thr others kind words.

I been soi depressed here lately that its how I feel anymore about myself. Like I'll never be good enough.