Don't care about relationships anymore.

submitted by PeterFromRuqqus from self.Incels

For a while now I have been completely devoid of any sort of relationships and im honestly okay with this.

I don't want girlfriend or even normal friends anymore, I just can't be bothered to deal with their emotional expetations and the whole work needed to keep up with relationships.

Last week a few coworkers asked me if I wanted to hang out with them after work and I said I was busy even though I wasn't... I feel numb and can't take pleasure from any hobbies or tasks anymore, I am invisible to people, I will often leave conversations of 4+ people without saying anything and no one will notice me.

I have become apathic to the world around me and my sex drive was also almost extinguished, I don't even want to masturbate anymore jfl.

Every day that passes by is the same, I feel like I am just standing by, waiting for my inevitable death. This is what long term inceldom does to you.

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[–]Salvador6feet6 4 insightful - 4 fun4 insightful - 3 fun5 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

Yeah same hire, I just can’t see at this point what a foid will give me or how is she going to improve my life. As a inkwell you will giving your money and emotional support to a foid that is with you because she can’t find better and she will give to you like 2 time a year sexy time. Every time my family or friends tried to present me a single foid they always looked with disgust at me and best part they them self ware even uglier than me. So now I absolutely don’t care what people think about me.

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    [–]automoderator[M] 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

    'Entitled' is a fairly meaningless term that does not accurately describe most of the incels on this sub or elsewhere on the Internet. On one extreme, the word 'entitled' is used to describe men who literally believe that they should be able to force women to date them. On the other extreme, the word 'entitled' is used to describe men who are merely frustrated or sad that they can't find anyone at all to date them. This type of frustration is reasonable, since sex and romantic relationships are regarded by many as one of the most fulfilling things in life. The problem with using the word 'entitled' for both categories of men is that it lumps them together, demonizing men in the latter category by companing them to men in the former category. If you wish to criticize our views, please be more specific than merely calling us 'entitled'.

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    [–][deleted] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

    volcel if coworkers invite you out but you say no

    [–]PeterFromRuqqus[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

    Male coworkers*

    [–][deleted] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

    yeah but I mean if you have guy friends and go out to bars with them that leads to a social life and then you could run social circle game. A true incel trait is no one from work, guy or girl, invites you to hang out.

    [–]PeterFromRuqqus[S] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    Incels can have social lives, only requirement is being involuntary celibate for 6 months.

    [–]takavoid513 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

    I can relate to this. I have been quite invisible to most people, only if they want attention or want me to do something. No one wants to hang around with you for you, rather for what you offer. I have had no relationship experience nor advice nor had anyone Interested enough to continue to talk to me. The idea of getting into a relationship is incomprehensible to me. I aim to have a comfy life free of the burden and from control of others. Not to say that all people are bad, but the amount of decent people who are not selfish cunts are few and far between. I would like to be in a relationship with someone who did care for me, but that possibility is off the table with the current state of the world and women. I hope we can achieve some fulfillment.