That's because their entire life is lived to one purpose. Chad-lite or above. That cuck simp is literally the albatross around their neck. Reminding them of their failure everyday. Women of course, for the most part, hate taking responsibility, especially for their own feelings, so will project their frustration and anger onto the simp. Especially since she can't, at least afford to project that frustration onto chads. Chads are the solution to her problem, het simp isn't. He's 100% not at fault, but "society" doesn't run on logic and justice. It runs on perceptions and vanity. If we all ran on logic and a sense of fair justice everyone would live a decent good life. Instead what we want to see is considered just.

best example of this. Read up on chad widow reddits like r/twinflames raw suifuel with 99% of posts being foids obsessed with chad miscontstruing their biological lust for him as "soul mates"