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Being incel is the men's equivalent of being raped

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[–]curryvirgin 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (3 children)

Rape is the men's equivalent of being raped. Men get raped all the time.

Seeing this comparison trotted out gets tiresome. There is no comparison for being incel. It is being an unneeded and unwanted human being. There is no equivalent scenario for a woman.

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I disagree that a man being raped is in any way similar to a woman getting raped. They don't experience it the same way we would because of their biological imperatives. If some guy raped me I'd experience humiliation for sure, but it definitely wouldn't traumatize me like women claim it traumatizes them.

And there is one kinda equivalent situation for women: being old and infertile

[–]curryvirgin 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I'm unwilling to put women on a pedestal due to their imperatives. Or, for that matter, to take their claims on face value, to think they have it worse. In both cases, an illusion of bodily autonomy is destroyed. On top of that though, men would face the destruction of their masculinity. Does that mean men have it worse? No clue. I've never been raped, neither as a man or a woman.

An old an infertile woman with no family may be equivalent, but then seniors and boomers are having plenty of sex.

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It seems in this case the foids' claim is in line with both their behavior and their biological imperative. It's not putting them on a pedestal at all, unless you think living on tutorial mode is admirable. It sucks that women have it easier than us and feel shallower emotions even when things don't go their way, but welcome to the gynocracy.

Exactly, getting raped would just result in people possibly making fun of you.

As for your last point: a) being incel is really more about being involuntarily single because every one of us could go rent a hooker (I did and I recommend it if you're a really virgin btw) and b) the sex you have as a teenager and 20-something is a whole different thing than the sex you have at 60. Most people don't even desire sex in the first place at that age.